Beth would have been 37 today. We would have done something as a family, I'm guessing or hoping. She may have gone to work not making a big deal of it. Now that she is not here it is a big deal. It's a big deal because you're celebrating someone's life and the more of it. Everyone's birthday is very special. No matter how old. In my opinion, it should be to everyone else and yourself, that it be one of the best holidays during the year. Love one another, cherish them, hold them tight. Realize you are alive.